If you're going out w/ his sister, he's going to know what you're doing if he wants to ask her anyway, so I wouldn't worry about it. Where are the girls if your son is staying w/ your parents?

I just wouldn't bring it up again. If he does, maybe just calmly ask if it bothers him for some reason and if he wants to talk about it.

Got the book "Proper Care & Feeding of Husbands" and just started it. Already seeing things differently. Hopefully this will help my attitude a bit. Also, figure if H sees I'm reading it, he will know I'm actively *trying*, you know?

Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10