Originally Posted By: Ruined_No_More
Originally Posted By: nicole8
H texted me That he never meant for this to happen...I responded, really then why do you selfishly pursue your affair with ow instead of putting the effort into bettering our m and yourself. No response from h....

What is wrong with me? Why did I do that?


Nicole, I got the exact same text from my H. Literally word for word. And I responded as you did.

I think it's just H trying to deal w/his guilt.


My H said the same thing to me. "it was an accident. It was never supposed to happen." well guess what chump? it DID.


M: 32
H: 34
S:5
D: 3
D: 1
Together 11 years
Married 7
Bomb: PA/EA 8/13/09 (for 1 year on and off)
ILYBINILWY: 08/09

"The end of suffering happens with the end of wanting."
-Laura Munson