My husband is addicted to an emotional affair

[timehealsall]

It is good that you are standing up for yourself, and you are certainly not wrong in calling it what it is.

But keep in mind that WAS's rarely react reasonably to being confronted. In his state of mind, all you are doing is reinforcing his mental image of the relationship: you're being controlling, trying to tell him who he can and can't be friends with, etc.

Exactly. They just see it as another reason NOT to be with you.

trust me.. it's INSANE, I know. but it's true!