You've been such a source of comfort for me. I thank you.
I see that the last you posted here was nearly a month ago. I'm so sorry that you're going through your sitch. I saw that someone wrote that his filing could be looked at as a way of helping you. Helping you to know how things (money, etc) will be handled. As you saw on my thread, I filed yesterday. One of my reasons was to get closer to having some sort of definite answer to something. Although I would love answers to other things, getting an answer as to how money, house, children, etc. will be handled is better than sitting here still not knowing ANYTHING. I can't control much right now so atleast having an answer in regards to anything helps right now.
If he has filed, look forward to that. Look forward to having a definite answer about something in your life. And as others have told me (and I believe to be true) even if he files, you're not divorced yet. Even if it goes through and you are divorced, life's not over. My neighbors, like your friends, are back together and happier than ever. They are D and do not plan on remarrying but are living together and are both estactic about their lives and relationship. They give mr hope.
