Haven't posted for a while. Have had some good days and some bad days. Have managed to keep the NC with H, it's been 22 days now since I last spoke to him (the longest ever). I am beginning to wonder though how long this is going to be. I am not sure if this is the right approach with him either. In the past, whenever I had contacted him in a loving way, he seemed to respond favorably. I am afraid that my silence could also be sending him the message that I despise him and he is hiding away full of guilt and shame. I don't know anymore. Any advice from anyone?
Bomb: 4/2009 M28 T32 Sep8 Me: 53, H:57 S20,D17 D papers filed by H: 2013 H didn't follow up with divorce I completely let go ever since
