Timeheals- believe it or not I do feel like I got back some of my dignity and self respect last night. It actually felt good to just throw it in his face and call it what it is. He started off angry but backed down pretty quick when he couldn't deny the truth. He still doesn't consider himself an adulter.... But you know I told him he was. Even if he hasn't slept with her it is still adultry.
Anyway it did feel good to put him in his place and stand up for myself. I don't take offense to any comments at all and realize that it will take a long time to ever trust him again...,but he has to want to let me. And right now that isn't going to happen because he isn't in love with me.
M 35, husband 35 M 10 Limbo 9/2009-12/2010 he left for his moms and came home way to many times to count Home 12/2010-present
