Kalni, it sounds like you're making great choices from day to day.
I'm just wondering...are you flirting with H? I'm sure your H loves the "attacks" but I think what makes a healthy sex life is when that thread runs through the day to day interactions, and when touch comes in many different forms.
Sorry to hear about your parents' health. Not an easy thing to cope with. (((Kalni)))
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.