Former Sucessful DB'er needs help again

[dday101798]

I am afraid bringing the issue up again will be destructive.

Well, I learned that one of the biggest things that broke my M was keeping things from each other that bother us.

Now on a second chance, everything is brought to the table, even tho it may cause tension at the beginning of the discussion, by the end, there is thanks and appreciation for not keeping it in, even if the issue does upset one or another.