Yes, I think it really is important to look at our spouse and realize that they are not the same person that we married. It's painful to let go of the spouse with whom we formed those beautiful memories and connections, but that's in the past now. The present is seeing what is now. The future is unknown...


me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4
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.: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.