Ohh, and he said he doesn't think that he wants to come home because there isn't any need or feeling to want to..... I told him maybe he should stop talking to the ow.... Because each time he came home he didn't stop communicating with her and it was like an addiction and was really sad he was in the bathroom texting with her. How pathetic.
No offense (and I mean it because I am in the same boat as you are), but he isn't respecting you or your marriage and even if a light-bulb went off right this very second, have you even thought about how long it would take him to regain your trust?
I am going through something similiar, and I am starting to think I have to salvage my self-respect and dignity.
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-