Still so far so good... taking this day by day... H talked to me today about taking leave to go home to finally see his daughter... I said well when do you plan on leaving? He said, what do you mean when I plan, when do you want to go?? So we are going to take that trip home together after all
I went to IC today, I went to the same counselor that we went to originally since he knows all about the situation. He was shocked to say the least of H new revelations, and advised me to remain a little cautious... but did express to me that these things can be over come and our M will be much stronger after this experience if we make it thru. Originally H had told me that he wants to go to the Chapel for counseling and not back to this guy, I asked him today if he would reconsider even just going to this guy once or twice with me cause I really like him and then we can go to the chapel after that, and he very willingly agreed today. So that was nice
It is nice to be in the house with H and feel that affection that I used to.... and have him continualy reaffirm that he is sure about this decision... feels good.... I hope that in a few months or so I can post a success story that I really feel comfortable with
Me: 25 H:25 M: 2yrs T: 4yrs No Kids Bomb: 11 Feb 10 Newcomers Story
