trusting - there is alot of research on the subject of remarriage and the churhes today are very watered down....one place to start is dr leslie Mcfall - you can google him...there are other great references too....you know the catholics and the amish have stuck truer to the word of God when it comes to marriage than most other Christians.....

There is a reason you have not felt like moving on...Gods word is written in your heart....thats my opinion....same with cagz