Trusting - You will make no sense of it...wow what would he have thought of me...my son slept in the same bes as me when he was much older than 5 after the bomb hit our family --- they want to feel safe there is in no way anything wrong with your daughter sleeping with You ..he is odd for even saying that...and on the other about him sleeping with ow with no marriage....well I have been researchin this subject of remarriage very earnestly as my Xh recently remarried the OW and the BIBLE is very clear that remarriage is adultrey....and some may argue the innocent party is ok..but I dont want to take any chances....The Bible states be reconciled or remain unmarried...wo YOUR X is completely unapproriate if he is trying to portray himslef as a Christian Man.....