Cat, I wish you could come through the computer and shake me. I really do. LOL

I know people are here to help, and I don't want to be stuck, I really don't.

And yes, you are right. They were divorced and she did go on with her life. I have to keep that in my mind!

Just wish I was as strong as most of the people are on this site and was able to detach a lot sooner!

M 41
H 35
D 12
S 18
Separated 11/08