The lies and turning around of the truth is great, ain't it!?!
I have got the same crap from my wife. "You didn't call, you didn't ask me if I had a good time...."
It is maddening! They turn things around to make it fit in their fantasy world where all is our fault. It used to drive me crazy wondering if I should've, would've, could've. It still does make me wonder a little bit, but I now realize anything I would have done in any given situation would have been wrong.
Try not to get caught up in his game. They make this crap up as they go.