So what's up with the OW? Have you heard anything about that/her? Good for you for seeing that L.

Originally Posted By: dedicated
How in the world am I supposed to convince myself to find someone else.


Right now, don't even put "dating" on your radar. You are going through a lot of stuff right now and involving a 3rd party isn't going to help anything. So push it far away from your mind and just focus on you and the kids.

Being single is a scary thought when you've been with someone for a long time but it's not the end. I think when we're used to being in a couple we tend to think of being single as being alone, miserable and decrepit. smile I personally can relate to a lot of you women on here thinking the "alone" thing after being with H for awhile (really he is the only serious partner I've ever had) and it's funny because before him I absolutely loooved being single and thought people were so strange who felt like they "needed" to be in a relationship. Ha!