Allen A - thank you for posting. I agree with you on him controlling my sitch, it's frustrating. However, one of his biggest complaints about me was how controlling I was with him. So I think it's good that I'm leaving the whole D or M in his hands. I can tell it has shocked him that I am no longer trying to fix it. And I think it scares him to death that I he has to be the one to make the decision either way.
I'm controlling myself and what I do with my life. Yes, I'm lonely and sad and miss him. But that is no longer going to be all that I'm about. I'm going to accept those feelings I have and whatever happens will happen. My goal right now is to stay as busy as I can with as much fun things as I can do.
Together 16 years Married 12 years Me 36 H 34 D9 & S6 Separated 12/3/09 Confirmed A 1/25/10 Exposed A 1/26/10 H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10