Quote: Well the Xmas Puds seemed to turn out OK. Today I am making some Mincemeat.
A hard days cooking really helps to calm you down when you are freaking out. When I got home I felt much calmer. It did not bother me too much that H did not say anything about the letter. He seemed in quite a good mood tho and was nice to me. I wondered about saying something myself but decided not to for now- I didn't want to push too hard, just leave it and see what happens like sowing a seed. I guess he took it as a love letter rather a "relationship letter" (a new term I have just invented). It's true I would have liked more of a response but of course the true response I want is to improve our R. It seems to me that he did seem more affectionate. Although I said I would like to talk more openly about sex with him I don't think either of us is ready to jump into a full blown sex talk. We are just up to the point of making little jokes about it. I guess we are talking about baby steps here, but they all seem to be heading in the right direction.
Hey Jiji. I thought I would jump into your thread and say good show. I envy where you guys are now and hope one day to be here too.
I'm glad you didn't push the issue of the letter. I'm sure he did see and read it. But it may take time for what was in there to soak in. If I were him, my response may very well have been the extra affection. Until lately, I'm not good at speaking my heart. He may not be either. Give him time to do his thing and have a frank open talk about sex.
I think the jokes are good and may act as an ice breaker one of these days. I like the thought of your letter sowing a seed. In my case, I hope this was the case too. I think it was. I/we just have to keep watering it to see what grows.
BTW. What is a Xmas pud???? Do I have to google it to find out?
