Z - onlything i can say is i see a lack of boundries, or atleast no conciquences if a boundry in your mind is crossed - silent treatment, do not wait on him (food, washing clothes) are good baby step consquinces.

if he asks or prods - "i will not tolerate an open marriage, and will not continue taking care of you or your things if you continue to be in contact with OW"

puppy calls it a "storm" - somewhere on here i heard something that stuck with me "embrace the suck" - you are looking right at it, it will consume you and make you crazy - embrace it and you can beat it.

gman

Last edited by gman; 04/22/10 03:37 PM.
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