I'm so glad I found your thread today! This is exactly what I need, as I am struggling (finally)with finding me...........and trying to work on lists:

3 beautiful, perfect children
a job and co-worker that I found me "just in time"
friends and family that are there when I need them
exercise
wine, cheese, chocolate...food......too much of this and not that above
3 beautiful, perfect children
time alone
the realization that it is ok to be alone
the realization that my H (STBX) is NOT the man he was 30/20/5 years ago
the wonderful DB'ers here that have kept me sane (and alive)
learning about what I fear/have feared the most
SCRABBLE (should we start a club??) - especially with S11 when he REALLY beats me!
3 beautiful, perfect children
mushroom season - morels are here!
good books (when there is time to read)
new hobbies (that I don't have time for....but maybe some day)
3 beautiful, perfect children

Wow - getting longer than I expected.

Have a great day!


Me 45
M 25 yrs; T 31 yrs;bomb 8/15/06; moves out 7/18/08
D 18, D 14, S 12