I feel so stuck in the pain. The only way out is more pain.
If I don't do anything, then this is how my life will be. Pain. If I do something, then my life will be in more pain (or maybe different kind of pain).
Got to get my mind around the pain party in my future.
This is how it was explained to me, Z, when I found out my wife was having an affair:
PAIN HAS COME TO PAY YOU A VISIT. Think of it as a STORM. You can do nothing, and let it consume you and destroy you, or you can steel yourself and start to trudge INTO it, and eventually -- with God's help -- THRU it.
Either way, the storm isn't going away.
If you want, check out my old threads, when I used to post as "Chocolateeyes." For reference, my wife's affair was May - Aug 2007, and there are several threads about "The Storm."
