Do you think that over time (this last year) H has become a better liar?
Is the progression common - EA, then EA & PA and then just EA?
Yes they get good at lying. As far as I have read, once the EA turns to PA it never goes back to EA.
And why would you move out with your boys? Maybe he needs to move out- that makes better sense. He would have to pay to help you stay in the house!
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H tells me that he can't keep living like this. It is hurtful to me, the boys and the OW. He swears he is not having physical contact with her.
I don't get this- why does your H say he can't keep living like this- what does he mean?
Why is he staying in contact with her?
And no, I am not saying that As will never end. Because 95% do. But look at the damage they cause.
So when was the very last time you talked to your H about ending the EA?
If you are out of town on work, there is ample opportunity for him to be physical with OW and not tell you right?
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
