help with a plan

[TimeHeals]

"I want to save my marriage.
I'm done being a victim.
Done playing her games.
Done getting walked on."


Boy, can I identify with those sentiments (although I am wondering more and more about the first one). My heart goes out to you buddy. I tell myself almost everyday that I am lucky my marriage went South so early on and there are no kids involved.

I obviously have far less experience than you in these things, but I do know that detaching can feel very liberating sometimes.