I have looked into moving...contacted an attorney (to find out what my rights are). I have discussed what the attorney said. H wasn't very happy. H has not claimed to have contacted an attorney.
I really don't want to move into an apartment with teenage boys. It's bad enough in a house. I can't afford the house on my own.
I have exposed to kids, relatives, friends and complete strangers. I haven't exposed to his clients, but I have threatened this. H says he is scared I will ruin him. But apparently not enough to end the EA.
Do you think that over time (this last year) H has become a better liar?
Is the progression common - EA, then EA & PA and then just EA?
H tells me he will never leave me. Well duh, why would you leave if you can have a wife and the OW.
On some levels it seems our R is getting better. H is buying me a new motorcycle and one for him. That is an activity we do together. Like I said before when we are doing something together, we are really good.
H tells me that he can't keep living like this. It is hurtful to me, the boys and the OW. He swears he is not having physical contact with her.
So what you are saying is that the EA won't just go away. It won't just fizzle. It's an addiction. And that he is lying to me all the time. No wonder why I feel crazy.
The seriousness of my situation is occurring to me.
After a complete personality change, acting lessons and a courage transplant. It seems like I have to leave him, go dark and let him know what he will lose.
I feel so stuck in the pain. The only way out is more pain.
If I don't do anything, then this is how my life will be. Pain. If I do something, then my life will be in more pain (or maybe different kind of pain).
Got to get my mind around the pain party in my future.
I can't afford the house on my own. 
