SR - Glad you gave us an update. I am very impressed that you were able to pack up and move in two days with small kids underfoot! You must be Super Woman.:)
You really sound like you are doing well. That detachment is so hard. I'm sure it was nice to hear that H's friends are supportive of you. Have you been looking for work yet since you moved, or just waiting for the dust to settle and kids to adjust first? They are having a lot thrown at them with moving, etc.