So OM turned himself into your 'nemisis'? What does Wife think about it? ( she should think she made a mistake and realize she likes you much more and loves you )
It may be your advantage to never say a word to him, because you don't want to "relieve" that pressure, unless you actually need to ...
If that fight goes down, wife better jump on his ass too. I know that would make you feel good.
wouldn't call him nemisis - more like a low life scum bag.
thing is - am i upset...hell yes. would i love to knock his teeth into the back of his head...you bet....again becase this guy was my friend sat and listend to him about his problems with his W and all that crap too...
sadly it would not change anythign that has happened in the past...unlike MR. Bond (which was way cool btw)only the 4 immediate people know about what was going on, and i would like to keep it that way for my own reasons of course. OM wants to keep it secret as well because of all the lies he told otheres about how badly his W treated him to get sympathy from others after moving out of his house.
I also don't think W would be "happy" if i sunk to that level either, so the day will come very soon and i will keep my emotions in check ala Mr. Bond (i hope)- but as i tell my kids if someone starts a physical fight with you i will not be mad at you for defending yourself physically.
gman
Last edited by gman; 04/22/1002:30 PM.
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