All in all, I think you could have handled it much better...
Maybe the emotions of the issue caused your over reaction?
Yes, and clearly. She's done this before, sent the email to the mediator saying "I want this change and this change, Bill reply if you agree." "Oh, put it on hold for now..." I'm TIRED. Tired of the "this is what I want" attitude. Frustrated about her entitled attitude when I talk to her in person. But no, I'm not looking for accolates. I agree. And I knew it when I posted it. I'm pretty transparent here folks.
Originally Posted By: Bworl
to me, means that you still have some work to do on yourself. If you can't put your finger on some of the specifics of your failings, you can't have made all the changes to yourself that you should have made.
I can identify them, sure. Didn't write them all down here. I'm just mystified as to, why over the years. It makes me worried about the future, yes. And makes me realize the things that need to be different in any future releationship. But at the moment I wrote that, I suppose I was mourning the missed opportunity to have done it right.
