That sounds like a lot of hooey, how could that possibly work?
There must be some trick to making...controlling another person into doing what you want...
I sure as hell wouldn't be posting here if I KNEW that trick. I'd have my own country. Jacklandia!
I vacationed in Jacklandia once......and its not a place you want to visit.
GF,
Everyone is giving you great information. You need to let go. It is definitly a hard thing to do. I tried many tactics in the beginning and I came across as manipulative and controlling. I don't think I just came across that way....I was. I think I set myself back a few years.