You have a point. I just hate the thought of him sitting smugly at his desk thinking, "whew, I defused that one. it's all good." and then repeating this kind of thing in the future with someone else. no, I can't control that, but he's thinking he's a good guy, and he's really a cowardly weasel and I think he should get called on it--and clearly, nobody's doing that.


M60
H52
D20
M14 yrs
OW-old gf from 1986
bomb-5/18/08
H filed for D-9/10/08
D final 4/24/09
xH remarried (not OW) 2012