I tell you what. Why don't you go to the 'survivinginfidelity.com' forum which deals exclusively with OM/OW issues and see if the "gucci method" would work as good as you say it does. There's tons of people on there.
If you look at the ones that actually reconciled on there, I believe the vast majority of them worked themselves out through patience and compassion.
I need to chime in,
BARF. You almost make it sound sick. Waiting with "patience and compassion" while your wife is getting her rocks off on some other man. No. That is sick.
I guess one good thing can come about that. She will be forever thankful that you did not love yourself enough that you were supportive and caring and allowed her to experience the love you wish to give her from some other men.
