^^^ Well it's interesting that you suggest pointing out to him that I threw him out, WhatNow. On my other thread in "newcomers", a people have commented that he seems to be in denial about that.
I'd like comments on whether or not it's a good idea to point this out to him as you suggested. I think Jasper's advice above about my posturing causing my H to get defensive, withdraw seems to be the case. But a complete lack of reality doesn't seem like a good idea either.
It's almost as if H doesn't have a position until I state one, then he has one in relation to mine. If I don't show a position (posture) he doesn't seem to have one, is completely out of reality, and in denial.
M--14 years T--20 years, HS sweethearts dday #1--2002 EA dday #2--2005 bar sl*t dday #3/4--Feb 2010 texting/cell/physical/who knows what Shortly after found out he had been injecting steroids for 2 years
