things weren't going well and we both knew it but we agreed to give it a real try to make it work. However she didn't make a real effort. I called on that and she said there was no chance of reconciliation. The next few days there were fights about blame and name calling. In one of those she insulted my family and i lost it. I pushed her (barely touched her (being very honest)) but she made it look like much worse, like i had punched her or something.
No, i'm not snooping. I met a friend whom i hadn't seen for 10 years and we began to talk about what happened in that period. When i mentioned her name he said he knew who she was (did not know her personally). He told me what i mentioned above.
