My UFO (unbelievably fabulous observations)

[hoosiermama]

And I think I have decided how I'm going to respond to xH's pastor's patronizing little note.

Since he seems to find adultery a rather ambiguous thing, I'm going to disambiguify it for him, and spell out the consequences it's had for D14 and I over the past 2 years. In very practical terms. Just so he knows adultery is not some theoretical, philosophical little conundrum as he appears to think, but a real evil that devastates the lives of those left behind. I never want him to pussyfoot his way thru anyone's life again, because people count on him as a shepherd. That's what ordination does--and he's falling far short.