You did it because you are a caring human being that has been hurt by your H's affair.
Just don't do it again. It is okay. We all say or do things we wish we hadn't. I am sure even the most disciplined veterans on here have done or said something they wish they hadn't.
Think how you will handle the next time he says something that puts you on the defensive and respond the way you think you should. We all learn from what we should have done or wish we had done.
Don't let it bother you too much!!!
What would do if you had to do it all over again? I would like to know. Give it some thought.
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