you are 100% correct.... and I know this is true... and I definitly do continue to beat a dead horse alot... and I get it from my mother! lol She is terrible with this, with anyone in her life, not just my dad... and when she does it, I cant stand it either...

You are right, I just need to have fun with this right now... make him feel comfortable in choosing to stay in the marriage and with me. Make him feel like he did make the right decision, not the wrong one! I have a fear of making this too easy for him, thats what my problem is... I fear that I will get walked all over if I make this too easy for him.....

But I do want to have fun, and finally be able to enjoy my H being home from deployment


Me: 25
H:25
M: 2yrs
T: 4yrs
No Kids
Bomb: 11 Feb 10
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