I messed up big time. I called my husband earlier and he just returned my call. He just sounds so irritated and annoyed that I am even calling him. Then I ask a few questions and he tells me again I am talking about stupid stuff. one thing leads to another and I basically unleashed on him. I told him I know what he is doing By spending timewith the ow and that it is an affair. He tells me he doesn't love me and that he can't just come home and pretend he loves me. We went round and round about him even admitting he has spent any time with her. He accused me of stalking him. I told him I didn't have to it was obvious. I asked him if she had any idea she was involved in an affair and if she had any morals? I told him the grass will look greener on the other side if you don't water the grass on your side.
He of course put all the blame on himself again and told me that he snt in love wiu me and that he can't look me in the face after he has looke at ow. Just q whole lot of bs spewing.
Sorry but I am just so annoyed and irritated with him and he tells me again we should be divorced and then tells me at the end of our conversation that he doesn't knw what he wants. WTF? I feel like I really messed up I was pretty mean and tole him that the same thing was going to happen with the ow, he was going to wake up and not be in love with her one day if she hadn't left him already. I was so mean. Told him his r with her wasn't a r it was an affair.....
I really am sure I messed up bt who knows. I am thinking of texting him in the morning that I will save him the trouble and file for d myself.... I don't know what I am goin to do.
Last edited by nicole8; 04/22/1005:29 AM.
M 35, husband 35 M 10 Limbo 9/2009-12/2010 he left for his moms and came home way to many times to count Home 12/2010-present
