Gatsby just keep reminding yourself the man H is now is not the real H. It is temporary. (But at the same time you don't want him the way he is now-I like Allen's suggested wording to Piano about not wanting her "drama queen" H but wanting the old H or something)

And use your anger to keep your resolve. I am sorry about your pain-when you described it I remember last year when I passed my WH on the way to my house as he was leaving and waved but then crumpled in pain because of seeing him after so long and I missed him terribly.

but use FB to YOUR advantage to post away about how great you are doing etc.

So did you talk to your inlaws? How did it go?

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004