My Wife And Her Emotional Affair

[ken5140]

Thanks WhatNow, for giving me sort of a plan that I can follow.

And thanks Puppy, for elaborating on this:

Option 1 CAN work, although I can count on one hand how many times I've seen it work on these site, among the thousands of affairs I've studied over the past few years.

This is what I really needed to see, some kind of statistics. I hope you are not exaggerating much, because if it is true what you're saying, I'm about to get on board.

But among the ones who do send the wife packing under my similar circumstances, what percentage return and how long do they wait? (ballpark figures, at least)

(I'd love to see any estimates from anybody that has experience here and could give me some sort of estimate.)

And if she does commit to NC with the OM (my primary goal for now), I gather that there won't be the need to send her away since obviously she is giving me something to work with, right?