Thanks Puppy. This is a lot to think about. My H has not been seeing anyone since D Day that I know of. I'm not sure if that changes the situation or not. I appreciate you help. (I don't really feel done with H, but am very bored at this point. I never realized boredom could be such a serious problem!).

THANKS

M--14 years
T--20 years, HS sweethearts
dday #1--2002 EA
dday #2--2005 bar sl*t
dday #3/4--Feb 2010 texting/cell/physical/who knows what
Shortly after found out he had been injecting steroids for 2 years