embracing change

[ImprovedRomeo]

(((FM)))

This is a really tough situation to be in and this sort of thing can deflate a healthy happy person to nothing.

what would I do if I knew that he was sleeping with her or another OW? Not really sure. I'd really rather know without H knowing that I know.

What could any decent person do? Other than realizing that we can't control what others do and ultimately they're responsible for their actions and consequences, just like we are. Think about why you want to confirm if there's an OW? If you have a plan of action then by all means do it so you can execute that plan such as filing for D yourself etc. If you don't have a plan then just be patient while you prepare a plan (flowcharts).

It would be an emotional punch in the gut to find out about an OW, but I don't find it surprising that H would want to date/sleep around given that he doesn't want to be married to me any more.

It would be a punch in the gut for anyone! and it's really maddening that they think they're justified in having an EA/PA just because they single handidly decided they no longer have a family.

So I think I should do nothing and stop thinking about this. Wish me luck. sigh.

You should stop 'assuming' that she's the OW or there's an OW but you should slowly start thinking about your plan in case there's an OW.

(((FM)))