Yes, they have a "pull" but I think that the "push" of whatever went awry in the M is usually stronger than the OW/OM "pull". The WAS sense of dissatisfaction is in many cases the fundamental issue.
I absolutely think this is the case in my sitch. Doesn't stop one from comparing, but the reality is that any woman is going to look refreshing compared to a W in a marriage gone sour.
Originally Posted By: Number 8
flowmom, do you have any upcoming DB coach sessions, or did you complete those?
I completed three, but I'm considering doing more.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
