W is in Las Vegas with a female friend (but who really knows) and I know she's seen her own lawyer. Amazing how easy that was to find on a notebook in the office but every trace of her cell phone records is gone.
Anyway, I'm wondering on my next steps. Should I be dark? W has been sitting with me watching TV at nights, came down and shared dinner with me a few times. As much as I've detached these are the circumstances where I'm not sure if I'm making matters worse or better.
W never committed to ending EA and is likely hiding the contact now. No one has sided with me from W family or friends so is it 'dark' time until W starts doing the work? Are there other consequences beyond what I've done?
Or should I be making myself the better option and spending time with W etc.
Anyone with any thoughts please share.
M 40 W 39 D 4 M 5 years Bomb dropped 08/09 In house separation
