I'm wondering about what the DB coach said. Would it HURT anything to ask? Could you take the answer if it's positive, the feeling that you might be being lied to if he seems nervous, the anti-M spew it might bring? If so, I don't know if a simple question will move someone towards D who isn't already almost there. I could be wrong, but it seems unlikely. But if you're not even to chitchat yet, you might want to wait. Not sure.
There are some good thoughts and questions here, rr22.
flowmom, do you have any upcoming DB coach sessions, or did you complete those? Just curious about what a coach would say now.
