Originally Posted By: rr22
Originally Posted By: Number8
I guess I imagined him giving our wedding pictures the finger or dancing around


LOL!


Okay, so that is a pretty funny visual.

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Also it is hilarious about contractor kama sutra! I bet contractors have seen it all and a hundred times. Ha.


Oh, this is sooooo my luck. I don't typically blush, but I definitely felt my face get hot when that happened. Maybe it wouldn't have been so bad if there wasn't an awfully explicit picture of two lovers in the throes of ecstasy on the cover. I'm embarrassed to even remember it. blush


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On a more serious note, it sounds very possible that your father's illness reminded him of the tough times after your mother's death and it is one of the things that triggered him to flee. It's not a coincidence on these boards that R problems escalate around illness, childbirth, job loss, and death. Stress. It's called head for the hills!


I think that's definitely what kicked it all off for us. Then he was able to conjure up all the other terrible things about having to endure me as a wife. That was the catalyst, however.