Well my wife has just run out of cell phone minutes again (after recharging her account only about 3 days ago) and she hates to waste money, so I guess I'll wait and see what she does in the next few days (whether she recharges it again and talks with the OM). She closed out her FB account a few days ago and agreed to go with me to meet with a counselor a few days ago. So I'm hoping that she will stop communicating with him now.

By the way, I so so much appreciate you guys (Allen, Sandi, WhatNow, PuppDogTails, Jasper and others) devotion to helping people like me who are in this situation. I really want to learn how to handle this situation in the right way, but I must admit I have a hard time grasping the thought that sending her away is going to help our marriage rather than separate us for good. So Option 1 really appeals to me if I can somehow make it work.

Under what circumstances will Option 1 actually work?


My wife is asking for a divorce and I don't completely understand why.