Per L, petition will be ready for my signature by Monday. It will take about 8 weeks before the court date will occur. They will wait until as close as poss to the court date to serve him in the hopes that he won't have long to harass me. Also, it may help to give me time to keep him paying the bills that he is willing to pay.
I was told that if I petition for use of the home that I'll be responsible for paying the mortgage until the divorce is final. Guess what that means? I have no job. I have nowhere to go. My only hope is to (and I have to do it soon) try to talk to H and tell him that I'll agree to sell if he'll agree to signing papers with mortgage co to do a payment plan reducing mortgage in half for next 6 mths to one year. I also have to try to find out what he wants to fight me over (custody, etc.) so that L will know what to plan for come the hearing in about 2 months.
I HATE THIS!!!!!!!
I cannot believe that I've given half of my life to my H and he's now completely throwing me and the life we made in the trash! It's like I'm 16 years old and being thrown to the wolves yet I have two children to support as well and have to start completely over with nothing.
