Don't expect him to have a clear head when you don't.
So Mish, exactly what are YOUR intentions?
Can't answer? Neither can he. Want to force an answer you might not want? Then force it now. Otherwise, be patient.
Quit trying to get stuff out of him.
Focus on your own boundaries. What is your boundary here.
"I'm not sure what this is. I'm not comfortable in a FB R. Doesn't work for me, it turns out. So, I need to stop having sex with you until or unless we decide this is something beyond a FB R."
Give him space to figure out what he wants without forcing the answer or neither of you will no what his true choice is.
