I enter this with humble humility...as an anecdote and nothing more.

I am here because I am an LBS in my 2nd M. But before the second I was an LBS in my 1st M- 10 years ago (I know there is something wrong with me that's why I'm here, I am a slow learner!)

Well xW finds out that there is trouble in my M and calls me a couple of months ago to tell me that what she did in our M was the biggest mistake she ever made in her life. She offers to call my W and tell her that.

I thought her very gracious to care about my new W so much.

We have been divorced 10 years now and she never remarried or had children.

So the there ya go Jack a sample size of 1!


My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am