My UFO (unbelievably fabulous observations)

[hoosiermama]

I just had to tell D14 that she won't be able to go to Chicago on her choir tour this June. xH is not willing to pay for it and let me pay him back my portion, nor will he ask her wealthy uncles to help with it. I really, really hate this. She doesn't get to do much at all, we haven't been anywhere on vacation--or even away for a weekend--in several years. But it's all I can do--and sometimes more than I can do--to keep all the utilities on.