dedicated - I'm so sorry )-: And you are so right, divorce is not always the end. My best friend that I am living with right now remarried her H after they had been split for 4 years/2 of those years legally divorced. So I do know that happens.
You are doing the right thing by going to the L, you need to protect yourself. Hang in there and I will be praying for you.
Together 16 years Married 12 years Me 36 H 34 D9 & S6 Separated 12/3/09 Confirmed A 1/25/10 Exposed A 1/26/10 H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10