dedicated - I'm so sorry )-: And you are so right, divorce is not always the end. My best friend that I am living with right now remarried her H after they had been split for 4 years/2 of those years legally divorced. So I do know that happens.

You are doing the right thing by going to the L, you need to protect yourself. Hang in there and I will be praying for you.


Together 16 years
Married 12 years
Me 36
H 34
D9 & S6
Separated 12/3/09
Confirmed A 1/25/10
Exposed A 1/26/10
H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10